Step 2 in becoming in independent, find what your weaknesses and strengths. But remember that we are all different so my strengths can be your weaknesses and vice versa. (maybe this should have been step 1)
Weaknesses
Let us start with the weakness since there is actually strength in knowing your weaknesses. Like if I know I am scared of heights then I can prevent myself from getting up in high trees or similar. I know from myself that my weaknesses is:
Crowds: I don’t like to be in crowds and I would rather be in small groups of people since I get a feeling of being lost. It is also makes me overwhelmed.
Height: I don’t like high places if I am not feeling safe so I don’t mind climbing and what else but I need to feel safe to do it
Age reading: I have no clue of how old a person is unless they tell me, sure I have a clue if they are young, old and so on but I could talk to a 15 year old without knowing they are not 35 years
Body language reading: I am not good at this either so sometimes I say the wrong words because I didn’t read the body language correctly.
Naive: I am very naive and sees the best in people almost no matter what.
Strengths
Strengths is of cause things you are good at.
Details: I see a lot of details in things, just sometimes I am so focused on details that I forget the world around the detail.
Love learning: I love learning new things just sometimes a bit lazy to do it like I didn’t cook for a long time but now I am doing it again.
Grounded: I feel that being grounded is a good thing to have since it allows you to be there for all kinds of people (If I get to talk to them, hahaha)
Loyal: I feel I am very loyal to people and always try to get the best out with all kinds of people, no matter what.
