Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life.

Jesper’s lesson

I wish I knew that things was not a race but that things comes when they come. To explain I feel like that I used to have in a big rush to experience things in life before because I didn’t understand I had plenty of time to do what I wanted or needed. These days I just take one step at the time while making sure that all my unique pieces are able to follow me to the new place in life.

Ria’s lessons

1. Love or feelings cant be forced. No matter how big your love for someone is but no guarantee they can love you back.
2. Dont trust anyone. Trust need to be earned. And fact that nowadays many people like to lie for their own benefit
3. We dont need people’ validation. Stop thinking about people’ opinion about us. People dont pay our bill and they are not God. So stop thinking too much about them. As long as you dont hurt other people, you are free.
4. Dont be people pleaser. It will hurt you. Just be nice and spread love but know boundaries. Dont let yourself to be used by others.
5. Have boundaries doesnt mean bad. Boundaries protect you. It helps people to respect you too. Boundaries will help you to help people but keep you safe too. Not sacrifice you and everything you have for certain people only.
6. Dont rush things. Everything takes time. Love, relationship, business and etc. Instant things will bring instant and temporary results. Many people failed because they trusted on instant things.
7. The most important treasure in life is health. With good health we almost can do everything. We can work, enjoy good meal, enjoy our sleep, oxygen and etc.
8. Have spiritual life will help life to be balanced. Believe in God, or any religion or spiritual practice will help life to have goals and be peaceful
9. People that hurt you most of the time are people that got hurt too. So stop the hatred, forgive and move on
10. The world doesnt revolve around you. Learn how to share this world with other people and be humble.
11. Nothing permanent in this life. So dont take anything for granted. Cherish every moment. Feel grateful. Love more.
12. Do good and good things will come back to you. What you sow is what you will reap. Karma does exist. Sometimes it is slow. Sometimes instantly.
13. Listen carefully and be humble to learn from other people. Because our opinions arent always right. Learning is life time process.
14. Mean words will make things worse. So be careful with our words. Communicate better
15. Try to see good things even in a disaster.
16. Have empathy and world gonna be more peaceful
17. We are rich if we share our things with other people.
18. Read more and travel more
19. Be careful with money as money can change people to wrong directions.
20. See people’ action. Dont trust their words without real action
21. Be careful with people you allow to be in your life. Once you let the bad people in, they can ruin your life.