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L = Love

This week we are covering the letter L and I have decide it stands for love since I feel it is a subject worth mentioning. I am sure that many people know what love is and have experience it, I think I have even I am not 100% sure about it anymore. To people with Asperger’s I feel it can be a bit confusing since it is hard to read a person’s body language and know all the signs a person sends your way. It is also sometimes hard to send the right signals back, like one time I was in the UK and since it was one of the first times for me to be there on my own I was very interested in what the guide had to tell me and I did not know any of the other people who were with me so of course I talked to him mostly and since he was a guide I thought he might know some places for dinner in London. To make a long story short then he thought I was gay because of the signals I have sent him while I just have Asperger’s. He respected that once we found out what had happen and we still ended up having something to drink a few days later. The reason I bring this story up is because I did not feel I did anything special to him while he did and guess that also sometimes happens between lovers. Some people with Asperger’s is bad at expressing themselves so maybe they won’t tell you they love you a million times or remember the date of anniversary or do things randomly so if you are feeling a problem between you two. Try talk to each other instead of feeling rejected or worse feelings. These days I am often just myself which is fine to me and I like it since I feel dating is not my type of thing right now and if I do not use at an app or similar I would not have a clue about the age of the women and even I do not mind a young or older gf I want her near my age and not too much for either side plus I don’t want to go to jail because I looked at someone too young as I find it very hard these days, not complaining about people’s outfits.

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