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5 things I wish I knew earlier

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I am not sure if I have made this before but my mind is too tired to get other ideas at the moment so feel like I wanna do this. So without much more I wish:

.1. That the world is evil if you let it be

I feel the world is a very evil place if you don’t do things to prevent it from happening. I know I can only do so much on my own but a smile from stranger or not reacting to the comments can really make a difference

.2. Mindfulness can be used in different ways

I started to do mindfulness with the quest to clear my mind for every thought inside it just to learn you can do it your way. So my way is the opposite, I allow all my thoughts to come since I feel that most of the time during the day we are so focused on something that it does not allows us to think clearly so that is why I also my mind to have spaces where I am allowing that.

.3. Never stop learning

Life is long and even you feel you have learned enough in school keep yourself growing in wisdom. I have never been good at coding but these days I am practicing myself on W3schools and tryhackme to know even more.

.4. Homecooking is better than resturants

Sure I have gotten good food on resturants and sure I have gotten a good homemade meal at my parents but there is something different about the taste and joy when you make it all by yourself

.5. Being different is a strength not a weakness

Well this a bit of strech since I never watched being different as a bad thing but it was first when I reached my special school for asperger’s that I found the strength.

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L = Love

Posted on by JTCHlife

This week we are covering the letter L and I have decide it stands for love since I feel it is a subject worth mentioning. I am sure that many people know what love is and have experience it, I think I have even I am not 100% sure about it anymore. To people with Asperger’s I feel it can be a bit confusing since it is hard to read a person’s body language and know all the signs a person sends your way. It is also sometimes hard to send the right signals back, like one time I was in the UK and since it was one of the first times for me to be there on my own I was very interested in what the guide had to tell me and I did not know any of the other people who were with me so of course I talked to him mostly and since he was a guide I thought he might know some places for dinner in London. To make a long story short then he thought I was gay because of the signals I have sent him while I just have Asperger’s. He respected that once we found out what had happen and we still ended up having something to drink a few days later. The reason I bring this story up is because I did not feel I did anything special to him while he did and guess that also sometimes happens between lovers. Some people with Asperger’s is bad at expressing themselves so maybe they won’t tell you they love you a million times or remember the date of anniversary or do things randomly so if you are feeling a problem between you two. Try talk to each other instead of feeling rejected or worse feelings. These days I am often just myself which is fine to me and I like it since I feel dating is not my type of thing right now and if I do not use at an app or similar I would not have a clue about the age of the women and even I do not mind a young or older gf I want her near my age and not too much for either side plus I don’t want to go to jail because I looked at someone too young as I find it very hard these days, not complaining about people’s outfits.

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