Today I have decide to continue with the letter R and I have picked routine. Personally I am fine being spontaneous sometimes so I do not need everything to be routines but I like that there is order and system in my things like I have a routine I do when I wake up, go to bed and such. I guess we like routines because we are not always the best at knowing what happens or what to do in new events and such. Other people with Asperger’s can have a serious meltdown if their routines are broken while my breakdowns more happen if too much is required of me. So if you really wanna make a person with Asperger’s feel good allow him to follow his routine and let him do it without telling about new things happening in 10mins but rather give him as early heads up as possible.
