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Overcoming fear

What fears have you overcome and how?

I know the question is how to come your fears but I feel that the biggest fears I have in life is so big that I don’t even have the strength to overcome speaking up about them since I don’t know how to get started at them in the first place. I am not living in fear daily as it does not ruin my life and I don’t hate myself for it either but I feel maybe some of my days could be better if I was able to fix it. I am feel I am getting more and more brave to conquer them every day so guess I just need to take small steps but I wonder if my steps are too small and that maybe too few days left for it to happen. So guess I can answer half of this question by saying that you need to do small steps to slowly get the upper hand and hopefully you can beat it someday.

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Broken bone?

Have you ever broken a bone?

Well I found this fun to answer since I have never tried to break any bones in my body in my entire life but the reason I find it funny to answer is because I am so clumsy that I can fall over the smallest things. I have also twisted my feet so many times that I just need walk 5mins more then it is as good as new. I have been having lots of other injuries in my life from having 3 extra holes in my head as I ran between swings and got hit, flying hitting a wall. I have also done so much and being so clumsy should have been my middle name. Hahahaha

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Freedom

What does freedom mean to you?

I know I don’t reply this the right day but I decided to look at the prompts each day of the week between my post to check if anything is wroth writing about. I decided for this one, so what does freedom mean for me. Well I feel freedom means that people should be allowed or rather be free to do what they want in life as long they follow the laws and such of the country meaning I should be allowed to smoke inside my place without being blamed by others since if I do it on my own then it would not hurt other people. Of course if the law banned me from doing it then I should follow the laws no matter if I am home or not. Not sure if that makes sense or not but that is freedom to me

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Brands

What are your favorite brands and why?

I am not sure if this one is easy for me because of my Asperger’s or if it is just a normal thing for me but I do not have a favorite brand of things except for one thing otherwise I do not care how I long in terms of clothing, if I like the color, motives and such I buy and wear it. The one brand I like a lot is Apple products since to me they just works and if you have a connection of things from them they just work so well together. I have not tried android much so I cannot say if it has the same connection just when I look at it from outside it does not seem like it. If I had to say 1 app that prevents me from switching to android then it is Redpoint which is an awesome app for boulders which I happen to do 3 times a week unless something ruins the schedule like today.

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My most productive time

When do you feel most productive?

Well it depends on what I have to do since I like to have my things planned in a calendar and use reminders to focus during my day. I can handle surprises in my schedule just fine but it sometimes ruins my productivity. Another thing is if it is early in the morning or late in the evening, I think I can do most things both times but I am worst at the morning I would say since I can be a sleepy horse as my energy levels can be very low at times if too much have happened lately.

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Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

To me there is 1 aspect of a person that make person truly unique of all the aspects of a person to me even that I normally live after my motto: “I rather be weird than normal as if we all were normal, life itself would be boring” which means we are all unique since if we were not then all would be too similar in the world. My aspect is “being equal”, I feel you can tell a lot about how unique a person is by how a person sees people and how much the people around them needs to do to make a person equal. I feel the more you need to do to be equal with a person the less open minded the person is since we are all different, have different needs and requirements, have different life and dreams but if we all can treat the poor man the same way we treat the king or president then the world is going to be a better place so lets us not focus on what makes on different but more on what joins us together as one family across every tiny and big difference. So to me if you want to be unique then you need to be open minded and treat everyone like your equal.

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Weather

Guess I will keep a lookout at the prompts that appear inside the jetpack app since even they don’t have anything to do with Asperger’s and being different then I feel they do like this one from yesterday.

What is your favorite type of weather?

My favorite weather is a bit hard to say since it depends on my mood and what things are going on in my life so decide to pick 2.

Sunny weather:

I love the warmth of a good warm day with sun to really make the day a wonderful day since you don’t have to think of what you wear and such. You can just go out and experience it all in one sense if that makes any sense.

Cold (rainy or snowy) weather:

I also love cold and snowy weather since the snow is lovely even that that is cold and sometimes a pain in the ass to remove. As long as I get to wear the right clothes I don’t mind it. The reason I love it as well is because in Denmark it allows you to spend time with your family and friends indoors. So you often play games, make buns and drink hot chocolate together. I miss doing this with my family but will hopefully do that again soon.

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Dear 100 year old Jesper

I was out of ideas for something to post today when I noticed the prompt below and decide to follow it so here it goes.

Daily writing prompt
Write a letter to your 100-year-old self.

Dear Jesper (100 years)

It is me, from the past at around 36 years old, life has been better and life sure have been worse but we have managed to live life and get so far anyway. In our child hood it was the bullies who ruined our mood and these days it is waiting for the alarm to go off because of two crazy leaders, one on each side of our tiny country. If you are reading this the we survived and I am sorry that my mind was a bit crazy at the time it went one. Do you still have contact to Ria? I sure hope so since she is a great friend (A bestie) in this period even we have our up and downs. Today she learned me how to make some fish dish with garlic rice and cheese onion sauce, it was wonderful. I hope there are still fish in your time as I do not think I could live so long without fish. I am sorry to her that my mind is not so good these days since I really wanna meet up with her but can’t explain why but my body does not want to leave the country, it feels like an iron ship anchor together with lots of chains is holding me to the ground. I hope we have conquered this and found a way to move on with our lives even I am not sure where to go these days. I guess that was all for now but before I leave you I want to know one thing, I do not want to know about my love life or things like that but instead I want to know, did we every get to explore more of the universe with humans inside rockets than going to the moon again?

Thanks for everything and I hope to meet up with you someday
Jesper (36 years)