Just a short post, saying that starting today I will publish every post here on reddit. and I just added my Principles post and you can find us here
Principles
What principles define how you live?
Well I recently learned about myself that I have become too focused on the future and the past meaning that starting today I plan to live in the present time instead. It means I don’t have goals, surely I have things I wanna do better but I feel like my life is good as it is so why ruin it by focusing on goals for the future or regrets about the past.
As for focusing on getting better I wanna develop this habits:
- Get out of bed at 6:00 a.m. and go to bed at 10:30 p.m. so I get a good night’s sleep and have a good day
- Stop damaging my nails and skin so my body
- Eat healthy, homemade food (four times a week), get enough fruit and vegetables (at least three portions) so that I am not held back by a lack of good food, and drink lemon juice three times a day.
- Hydrate with 2.5 liters of fluid a day consisting of water, kombucha, and only enjoy soda so that I am not held back by too much sugar or lack of fluids
- Focus on life and deal with changes through 4x meditation (day), mindfulness, and 1x reflection (day), as well as journaling and 3 goals for the day so I have a wonderful day
- Exercise 3x bouldering (week), 3x yoga (week), and 85km walks (month) so my body can be at its best
- Keep track of my finances with a budget so there is room for both savings and experiences so that life can be easy as pie
- Be more creative in my short stories and drawings and help the world understand Asperger’s so that life isn’t just movies, Reddit, and work.
Once I reach a good level of those I would let them grow with me so they are not goals but more as a way of getting better by the day.
That was my view.
Moved my works here
Today I have moved my novels and poems to this website instead of my old website since I do not feel I will create more soon, so I will nuke it by the end of the month but still feel I want to have a home for my stuff so I have added it here instead. Nothing more to say about that
Jesper
My attempts
What’s something you would attempt if you were guaranteed not to fail.
I have read that most people with Asperger’s syndrome have been interested in space some time in their lives so my attempt would for sure go to the moon or to some place in the universe with life just to finally get the answer if we are alone or not. If more simple I guess I would try dating someone.
Favourite hobby
What is your favorite hobby or pastime?
I have 2, one for being indoor and one for ‘outdoor’, the reason for the ‘’ is because it is indoor but would have happened outside if possible.
My indoor hobby
My indoor hobby these days is for sure watching series or movies since I really enjoy spending time with that… I know it might not be perfect thing to do. I also love writing my novels but lately it has been very on/off to call it a favourite thing.
My outdoor hobby
My outdoor hobby for the past years is for sure my climbing in local boulders since it is fun, social and a sport and I have always been a climber in my heart so wish I could go back and introduce myself to it earlier.
My life without computers
Your life without a computer: what does it look like?
Before I start I wanna say I am 36 years old so I am born before the internet, cell phones and such ruined much of kids child hoods. Sure I have played computer as child but I still had fun outside. But let’s start:
- I would have a really hard time working since most if not 90% of my assignments I do at work is in front of a computer or on a computer
- I use computer to play games, movies, write my novels, post here so I would loss that as well, but I feel a bit too much connect with tech these days
- I would lose lots of my friends since most of my friends are online and if no computer then I won’t be able to talk to them and I would surely miss them
- I would still have my scouts, boulders and yoga plus my family so guess I would be mostly fine.
#1 priority for tomorrow?
Read the post here instead
Danish culture
What aspects of your cultural heritage are you most proud of or interested in?
I think the most interesting part of Danish heritage is that we used to be vikings even that the period is commonly known as Iron Age, we Danes just find it so important that we call some of it Viking age. I find it cool that a people have made so many stories, series and movies. These days we are a bit more boring I would say hahaha
Best advice
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
I would say I have gotten 2 really good advice
1. Take things slow
Guess this one says itself but feel many people forget that things don’t have to a contest about how is fastest but instead about enjoying life itself one minute at a time
2. Never share you goal with anyone before you are done
I feel I should listen to this more since I really wanna share my novel but so far I have used many years to write it and my mind has changed the idea so many times but maybe if I focused on it instead of focused on share news from it then I would be done by now.
Life without music would be???
What would your life be like without music?
Short answer:
Sorry to say but hell is a short I can make it
Long answer:
Often my focus is ruined by noise around me so if you want me to be able to focus on something allow me to hear music. It doesn’t always work since I can be distracted by other things than sounds but it is one of my main things so prefer to hear music. Other times my sensors goes crazy because I can’t handle the number of people around me and since I take train to work daily I would have have problems without music since it would be sickening for me to be in a full train. If music was not there I would either die of the sensory overload or not being able to work because of sounds. Sorry if this sounds too much but I am really trying to fit in so I am sorry to those who don’t understand my needs.
You but different 