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Greatest Gift

What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

Jesper: I was thinking a long time for my answer since there are a few good ones like ‘time’ , ‘wealth’ and so on but I ended up picking ‘being understood’. I picked being understood because I feel that to respect and understand people’s differences since none of us is the same person, not even twins. So being understood is very important to me since if you don’t do an effort in understanding the person in front of you, do you really care about the person? I am always trying to understand the person in front of me but sometimes I fails because it is hard for me to ‘read’ everything correctly and sometimes I fail to put the right words together making it seem like I don’t understand things. But I can truly say that in my mind you are unique meaning that I don’t care if that if there are a million people who smoke like you as long you try to understand me then I don’t mind that and I hate to put people in boxes with other people since no one is the same. I know that it might sound like I don’t care but in reality I care a lot as I see you as you and since I try my best to understand you then you know why I am picking ‘ being understood’.

Ria: with no doubt my answer is “time”. Time is very precious. When someone gives you time, for sure you are very important for them. They love you. People wont invest their precious thing to people who arent important for them. When someone has no interest in you, they wont spend time or give their time for you. They will make excuses to meet you or communicate with you. But if they are excited with you, they will appear often in your life, willing to make or spend time with you. If you are their priority, they have lots time for you. If you arent their priority, their presence will be little. So time is the greatest gift someone could give to me.

We also need to give time for people we love. For example parents give time for their kids. A husband or wife gives time for their spouse. We listen to our friend’s problems. We support and visit family members who need help. We pray for people who experience natural disasters, and many more. All of them use time.

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Happy new year

Back to rock 2026 but today I am so tired after New Year’s Eve so I just want to give you a sneak peak telling you that next week, hopefully Monday, maybe Thursday I will post about becoming less digital since my major New Year’s Eve resolution is to become less digital and become more analog.

Jesper

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Eating meat

What are your feelings about eating meat?

Well I heard that this subject is a little sensitive to some people so let me start by saying I am eating meat and I eat everything else since I am not a picky eater at all. As for my feelings then I have nothing against vegans and many dishes of vegan food taste good so I am not against it at all. I also respect that people can be vegan and guess the main reason I am not vegan myself is because I am so fond of all kinds of food that would not like to miss if I did it. People can eat whatever they want as long it is legal but I have 2 questions I want answered myself?

  1. Why are some vegan going so crazy they try to shame people into stopping eating meat, if you did that to me then it would make me eat more meat.
  2. Why does vegan dishes often look similar to meat version of the dish, I get it is hard to make a burger with meat and without meat look different but why is the dishes so similar? Does it have to be or is it because so many vegans are not vegan by choice but need to ‘force’ it

Guess that my opinion on meat and I have vegan friends and it doesn’t change anything about them.

Bon appetit

Ria : i am a pescovegetarian. But i am ok if my family or friends eat meat. Jj even often cook vegan food. And thats cool. We all free people. Vegan cant force non vegan to be vegan. And non vegan cant force vegan to be non vegan. Just respect each other.

While there are many researches said meat has nutrition needed for our body, i choose to not meat because i love animals. So far my body is still okay and healthy. I feel more healthy because i often felt pain in my back neck when i was still eating meat. But all depends on our own body. Just know our body and choose proper meal and diet style for us.

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Favourite place

What is your favorite place to go in your city?

I have 2 favourite places in my city:

My favourite place to go for eating is Chicago burgers which is good American style burgers and really good fries.

My favourite place to go to nature wise is a small lake not far from my home which I used to walk to a lot since it is not a place many people so it is peaceful. It been a while since I was there so not sure if it is still there.

My place

Otherwise my home is a really good place.