I know I said I would do post twice a week now but my mind was not getting good ideas for the letter P yesterday so will try again Monday
Month: August 2024
O = Order
This week we are covering the letter O which is quiet simple as often people people with Asperger Syndrome wants order in the things they do which you can see a bit on this website since I until today posted every Wednesday and now I will change it to Monday and Thursday. If you could see my calendar you would also see all my order since I have decided to write down everything in my calendar so each day is booked from I should wake up to I should go to bed. But I can be very spontaneous and I often don’t mind that things changes even I prefer that things go as I have planned them. Guess it is also why Asperger’s hate dating, meetings and phone since there are so many things since there are so many unexpected things… I have never been on a date so cannot say anything about that but meetings is so annoying too me since I don’t feel I have much to say to them and I am not in mood to hear about things that people fighting during them which is how I feel when people don’t agree and people raise their voices. The place I got the idea for an Asperger’s alphabet also mentions food not allowed to touch each other. I don’t think this has been a problem for me but when I was a kid I used to eat things in order so first I would eat potatoes, then the salad, the meat and lastly the sauce instead of mixing it together… sometimes I still do that but now it is mostly to taste the things on their own.
Small but important post
Today marks the beginning of something new, starting today I will make posts here on you but different twice a week… Monday and Thursday each week except for next week where it will be Tuesday and Thursday. I cannot wait to get started and will write the next letter of alphabet today after this post.
N = Naive
This week we are covering the letter N and I have decide to make it stand for naive as people with Asperger’s can be very naive about things. I know I am very naive about things sometimes but I am slowly learning to avoid it more and more. I also read about that some kids with Asperger’s see their bullies as friends as because they give you interests. I am sure I did that as well since no many memories from my first class is happy memories and I was always the victim for the entire class. I do not remember a single person who did not bully me. Sorry that was a bit of a side track but I feel it shows that the world is a dangerous place if you do not open your eyes and focus on what is happening instead of just seeing it from the happy side that you feel it should be. For the record I would not say people who are naive are stupid they just try to see the goodness in other people that they feel they are bring to the table. I think one of the ways I have learned to be less naive is by watching all the movies I have seen since I can often see who the bad guy is before other people. Guess that was what I wanted to tell about naive, so please stop being an asshole to people trying to be kind to you.
L = Love
This week we are covering the letter L and I have decide it stands for love since I feel it is a subject worth mentioning. I am sure that many people know what love is and have experience it, I think I have even I am not 100% sure about it anymore. To people with Asperger’s I feel it can be a bit confusing since it is hard to read a person’s body language and know all the signs a person sends your way. It is also sometimes hard to send the right signals back, like one time I was in the UK and since it was one of the first times for me to be there on my own I was very interested in what the guide had to tell me and I did not know any of the other people who were with me so of course I talked to him mostly and since he was a guide I thought he might know some places for dinner in London. To make a long story short then he thought I was gay because of the signals I have sent him while I just have Asperger’s. He respected that once we found out what had happen and we still ended up having something to drink a few days later. The reason I bring this story up is because I did not feel I did anything special to him while he did and guess that also sometimes happens between lovers. Some people with Asperger’s is bad at expressing themselves so maybe they won’t tell you they love you a million times or remember the date of anniversary or do things randomly so if you are feeling a problem between you two. Try talk to each other instead of feeling rejected or worse feelings. These days I am often just myself which is fine to me and I like it since I feel dating is not my type of thing right now and if I do not use at an app or similar I would not have a clue about the age of the women and even I do not mind a young or older gf I want her near my age and not too much for either side plus I don’t want to go to jail because I looked at someone too young as I find it very hard these days, not complaining about people’s outfits.
You but different 