Today I want to talk about not knowing the right words as I feel or rather I know I did it again. In case the title doesn’t make sense then what I mean is sometimes I say things that might be in the best intention but it comes out wrong or at the wrong time.

Example 1

I am talking to a good friend X about how I feel about a date that I feel like my friend Y has put me on when I suddenly notice the time and wants put my attention on making sleep as I know it is a big day tomorrow. I can see now that it comes out bad as X just told the opinion about so it seems like I was blocking C while I was only trying to focus on X’s wellbeing because of the big day tomorrow instead of my stupid mind because of some small thing as a date when X’s is more important to me.

Example 2

I am talking to another good friend Y who has problems with partner Z and instead of saying something kind, I say something bad about Z and even Y is annoyed at Z then suddenly Y is mad at me for speaking my mind instead of being saying the right words.

Questions

I feel so stupid after doing it again recently so please help me answer these questions

• How to use the right words to show the person you cared?

• How to use the right words in a clear and meaningful way?

• Why does my mind sometimes explode and say bad things instead of caring things?
• Why do I hurt people when I try to show them I care?