Today I just want to say that now you can find Us on Reddit. It might look a bit weird as it is also home for my website for my novel Beyond love existence but I feel they both can coexist on the subreddit.
Month: August 2023
Food + Aspergers
Today I want to make a smaller post as I really don’t know what to write about but feel that maybe food could be a good thing. You see, people with Asperger’s and other diagnoses are often picky eaters like 46-89% according to this. They can be picky eaters for many reasons:
Sensory Problems
We can have sensory problems that make us want to have the food in a certain way like it to be hard, have a certain colour and so on.
Bad at eating their food
I didn’t know what to call this but some kids is bad at eating there food so maybe it hits inside the mouth differently which causes it to feel bad and if it feels bad enough we don’t want to eat that again.
Food cravings
Some kids also just get in love with certain foods and then only wants to eat that.
How to fix it
I don’t know how to fix it, but my parents have always been giving us the food I wanted if we were at a restaurant or somewhere else so I didn’t get a child menu or something special meal. If I wanted a fish, I got a fish. So my guess is that the mix that people are afraid of giving kids what they want and that people are eating so much junk food or have time to make some good food for the kids makes many kids picky eaters including people with Asperger’s and diagnoses. We just get hit harder because parents don’t have time to ‘fight’ us.
My meals
Like I said, then my parents always gave me what I wanted and the only problematic food I have is ginger, coffee and for some odd reason mashed potatoes. Otherwise I love trying new foods especially in a foreign country.
Not knowing the right words
Today I want to talk about not knowing the right words as I feel or rather I know I did it again. In case the title doesn’t make sense then what I mean is sometimes I say things that might be in the best intention but it comes out wrong or at the wrong time.
Example 1
I am talking to a good friend X about how I feel about a date that I feel like my friend Y has put me on when I suddenly notice the time and wants put my attention on making sleep as I know it is a big day tomorrow. I can see now that it comes out bad as X just told the opinion about so it seems like I was blocking C while I was only trying to focus on X’s wellbeing because of the big day tomorrow instead of my stupid mind because of some small thing as a date when X’s is more important to me.
Example 2
I am talking to another good friend Y who has problems with partner Z and instead of saying something kind, I say something bad about Z and even Y is annoyed at Z then suddenly Y is mad at me for speaking my mind instead of being saying the right words.
Questions
I feel so stupid after doing it again recently so please help me answer these questions
- How to use the right words to show the person you cared?
- How to use the right words in a clear and meaningful way?
- Why does my mind sometimes explode and say bad things instead of caring things?
- Why do I hurt people when I try to show them I care?
