Month: June 2023

Jesper's Posts

Sex & Asperger’s NSFWish

Posted on by JTCHlife

Well today’s subject is maybe crossing the line for some people and not all people are the same so this is as always just my experiences with the subject. I will start by answering some questions that Ria gave me, before going to about me and ending with sexuality.

Do people with Aspergers interested in sex?

Well I think most people with Asperger’s has interest in sex, but it requires a great deal of things for them to make it happen… Here is a small list of reasons for me.

  1. I am not social enough to just date like neurotypicals
  2. I want a connection and not just do it because everybody else is doing it
  3. I feel like that during my teen years I spend more time learning about myself than learn the sexual stuff so I am “Slow”
  4. I am nerdy and not strong and buff
  5. I have no clue about what you want unless you tell me

Do people with Aspergers have less desire than neurotypical?

I do not think that the sex desire is less than with neurotypical but guess we just have a hard time showing and get to it

About me

Well I have not experienced it yet so nothing interesting to say about me but I would like to try it someday.

Sexuality

This is just how I feel when reading on forums like Reddit and such so sorry if it offends people or is wrong but I feel that most people with Asperger’s don’t just love girls but is a bit more into trying different things like being gay, trans and so on. Which maybe is making it even harder for us to do things in the name of sex. I am a normal person who just like a woman but have a few kinks that I wanna try if possible.

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Jesper's Posts

Crowds

Posted on by JTCHlife

Today I wanna talk about crowds as I would say it is one of my weaknesses as it really can make me feel uncomfortable very quickly. First I will talk about what happens to me when I am in crowds as there are 2 types for me.. 2nd I want to tell how I can beat it to a certain extent.

Type 1 indoor

This type is probably the worst thing you can do to me, place me in a room full of people that is all talking and the room is too tiny for us to be there. I have tried it a few times over the years and every time I start feeling nausea like if I have taking a rollercoaster one time to many afterwards I gets a bit of headache and then I start not being able to handle myself or focus on what I am supposed to do in the room and if too long I have lost all my energy. The longest I have stayed was during a meal. I recently tried it when I was at Le Mans when we was going to eat lunch inside a tent but there was too many people. I also tried to see if I could handle myself inside a mall on Black Friday but got sick in less than 15mins even I knew my goals before entering.

Type 2 outdoor

This type on the other hand in no big deal for me so as long there is air for me to breath I am alright. Of course I still prefer less people compared to many but I can handle it.

How to beat it?

It is very easy for me to beat it these days as now I know why I am getting sick so I can just go outside most of the times, but if I cannot do that I can pick up my noise cancelling headphones and play some music in my ears so I can focus on what I should do instead of becoming messed up. Of course that prevents people for interacting with me but it is either that or I am leaving.

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